Yeah so OK. Start with love if you've got nothing else. But what if you're in the middle, and you need it, but it's already spent. People say love conquers all but personally I've found love to be very vain and submissive. Its power comes from its patience, like a glacier, which given enough time will crush everything in its path. But people are not patient. And with a vanity that rivals even love's, well, what then? And when everything coming from God seems like a judgement against you, love seems like something you want to ditch as soon as fucking possible.